Say Hello to cosy conversations in Bed: Pillow Talk

While sex is one of the building blocks of a relationship, communication is an important aspect of it as well. If there is no communication in a relationship, it won’t last long. The two partners in a relationship need to be vulnerable with each other and open up about themselves rather than hiding their true personalities. And this is where pillow talk comes into the picture. 

Building a connection with your partner takes time as well as effort. It won’t happen in a day or two once you start dating someone. You first need to get to know them, their personality and only then you will be able to connect or vibe with them. However, even if after months of dating someone, you feel physically and emotionally disconnected to them, then you might need pillow talk. While your sex life might on the highway, you might not be emotionally available to them in the relationship. 

And the best way to showcase your vulnerable side to your partner is through pillow talk. Pillow talk is an intimate, authentic and unguarded conversation that occurs between two partners. It is a safe, loving and genuine connection that mostly takes place while cuddling, before or after sex. However, sexual intercourse does not really have to be a part of the equation. 

Pillow talk usually works as it does not allow self censorship and leads to more in depth conversations. While for some men pillow talk comes naturally, some find it tough to open up. Hence, we decided to give out a few examples of pillow talk for you to get started. 

Talk about Your Future Dreams

No matter what you two do for a living, both of you must have certain dreams and goals for the future. Perhaps you want to become a bestselling author in the coming future while your partner wants to travel the whole world (with you). No matter what your plans are, talking about them during pillow talk will only bring you closer. You can motivate each other as well as help each other out in achieving these goals. 

Compliment Each Other

Did you like your partner’s new hairdo or their new dress? Or perhaps you love that they are able to keep up with their new, hectic job. Whatever it is, do not keep it to yourself and compliment them about it during the pillow talk. Such compliments will bring a smile on your partner’s face and possibly get you lucky as well. 

Pillow talk while cuddling with your partner is good for your relationship.

Romantic Getaways

Romantic vacations and getaways are a way of taking a break from your hectic schedule to spend some time with your partner. Whether you opt for a beach destination or the mountains call you, talking about it with your partner is a necessity during pillow talk. Perhaps you both could talk about all the activities that you could do together or the destinations that you want to witness. Whether it’s Paris or London, you both can visualise it much before you reach there. 

The First Kiss

The first kiss in a relationship is always a special one that no one tends to forget. Did it happen on the first date under the moon? Or did it happen while watching the sunset at the beach? No matter where it took place, talking about it will always bring back the alluring memories, leading to new (kissing) memories. 


Pillow talk is not just about communicating with your partner, but also showing your bare and vulnerable side to them. You can let them know about your insecurities, without a doubt of judgement. Such ways of communication leads to a high level of trust and honesty in a relationship. Apart from that, it builds a strong physical as well as emotional connection between the two partners.

Deepti Dogra
Deepti Dogra
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